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How modern LDS men view marriage, divorce, sex, loss of faith, the family proclamation and more

A new book examines these and other relationship topics — all through a male perspective.

(Rick Egan | The Salt Lake Tribune) A men’s choir sings at an all-male priesthood session of General Conference in 2017. Holly Welker’s new book, “Revising Eternity: 27 Latter-day Saint Men Reflect on Modern Relationships,” examines marriage, divorce, sexuality, illness, addiction, infidelity, infertility, sexual orientation, loss of faith, death and much more from a male perspective.

“The Family: A Proclamation to the World” spells out the central role marriage plays in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

Nuances aside, it designates so-called traditional roles, with husbands as providers for their families and wives as nurturers of their children. Yet many if not most, Latter-day Saints don’t live such neatly ordered existences. Their experiences are far more diverse, more challenging, sometimes more messy, often more rewarding and always more real.

Getting Latter-day Saint men to open up about their intimate relationships is no small feat. But writer-editor Holly Welker does just that in “Revising Eternity: 27 Latter-day Saint Men Reflect on Modern Relationships,” a collection of personal essays that touches on sexuality, illness, addiction, infertility, infidelity, divorce, sexual orientation, loss of faith, death and much more — all from a male perspective.

On this week’s show, Welker talks about what we can learn from these writers who reached beyond the Book of Mormon question of “what manner of men ought ye to be?” and revealed “what manner of men they are.”

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(Courtesy) Writer-editor Holly Welker.

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